Finding What's Right For You
Counselling in General:
The aim of counselling is to improve your wellbeing.
This can be in many different ways, for example :
It is widely accepted that improvements in your emotional wellbeing are linked to improvements in your physical health.
Face-to-face counselling will give you a secure base and a supportive relationship, from which to view your situation.
We will develop a relationship of trust and honesty - I will listen and reflect with empathy, to gain an understanding of what it's like to be you.
Meeting face-to-face gives us the chance to communicate by expression, posture and body language, which can add to that understanding.
It can take a little longer to establish a close connection through the screen, so I usually suggest meeting face-to-face just for the first session.
You will need to find a space with a reliable internet connection, where you won't be overheard or interrupted.
Skype may be a good option if regular travelling would be difficult for you, or if you have a very busy lifestyle
This may be a good choice if regular travelling would be difficult for you, or it may appeal to you if you have particular concerns about confidentiality and remaining anonymous. We have no preconceptions about each other, and we can talk over a long distance as if we are in the same room.
It's important to find a time and place where you will not be overheard or interrupted.
It is a different experience, to work with the voice only, but it can be very successful.
Have a think about what will be right for you, and trust your instinct!
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